Becoming a Better Communicator – The Art of Persuasion

Persuasion is an important part of becoming a better communicator and becoming a better communicator is the key to gaining more success. It is defined as the process of enacting a change on another’s beliefs, attitudes or behaviors.

Persuasion is about articulation, not manipulation or coercion. A master of persuasion lets others draw conclusions on their own, which creates a good feeling for both parties.

Being able to persuade is a sign of a highly competent communicator. Improving your own communication skills can help you in both your business and personal life. To start, familiarize yourself with these simple elements of persuasive arguments from Robert Cialdini, professor of Psychology at ArizonaStateUniversity

  • Reciprocity - Give and ye shall receive. Give your clients a reason to want to give back.
  • Commitment– Give people a reason or incentive to commit. It’s much easier to continue making commitments once you’ve made the first one.
  • Social Norms – Let people see what your business has done for others. Knowing that you’ve worked with many different people builds trust.
  • Authority – Let people know about your qualifications and achievements. They will feel secure knowing that you’re an expert.
  • Liking – This one is simple. Just try to be friendly and personable. We are more likely to be persuaded by people we like.
  • Scarcity – Offering limited time deals can sometimes be a way to persuade. If people think they might miss out on a bargain, they will be more likely to act.

When attempting to make a sale, keep these elements in mind. Don’t try to force anyone into it, simply allow them to make the choice on their own. They’ll be more likely to commit to a deal and will feel more satisfied with your business as a result. Become a better communicator and watch your business grow.

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CheckMate! What can business leaders learn from the game of Chess?

For today’s Growth Coach blog, we are fortunate to have Keith Boudreau as a guest blogger. Keith is a Growth Coach Franchise Owner from the North Shore Boston area and works with business owners, executives, professionals and sales teams to achieve their personal and professional goals.

To learn more about Keith please visit: www.growthcoachnorthshore.com/

There are many attributes that chess Grand Masters need to be competitive and continually improve their game, but I think these are particularly useful for them and for business leaders as well:

Effective Use of Time: Chess is played on the clock. Players need to decide among myriad options, think 5-10 moves ahead, and then put their opponent under time pressure as quickly as they can.

Business owners and executives are pulled in 1000 directions every day, with competing demands requiring their attention. The most successful business leaders have learned what NOT to do, and devote their time on the few critically important things that will determine the success of their organization. They don’t confuse Activity with Accomplishment. They value their time very highly, and refuse to spend it on trivial, low value tasks.

All Pieces are not Equal: A Queen and a Pawn do not have equal value. Each piece on the board has its uses, depending on what its movement capabilities are.

Every worker, supervisor and manager has capabilities unique to them, and an effective leader recognizes these differences. He/she does everything possible to ensure each employee is positioned to leverage their strengths so their contributions to Winning The Game are maximized.  

The Focus is on Results: In chess, you win, lose or draw. The object is to win.

In business, the object is to win. Its up to each business leader to define what constitutes “winning” , but once that is defined, its time to get to work. Results are what matters, not intentions or activities or initiatives or strategies or plans or anything else.  

There are no Excuses: Chess is a contest with the result determined exclusively by the Actions of the Players. There are no externalities, no lucky or unlucky bounces, no good or bad economy, no weather conditions, no wishing for a miracle… it is 100% based on the moves made by the players.

Business is also a game of no excuses, but we see them all around us. Don’t make them, and don’t accept them. OWN your results, because they are what you made them!

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Increasing Sales Through Relationship Selling

Glenn Smith

For today’s Growth Coach blog, we are fortunate to have Glenn Smith as a guest blogger. Glenn Smith is a Growth Coach Franchise Owner from the Houston/Sugar Land Texas area and is a highly regarded business coach, prolific blogger, an accomplished marketer, and has recently been recognized as “The 2011 Coach of the Year” by The Growth Coach System.

You can learn more about Glenn, his credentials and his coaching services at www.TheGrowthCoachhHouston.com.  

Increase Sales Through Relationship Selling

If you want to increase sales I strongly recommend that you learn to develop a relationship selling approach. A classic resource, though sometimes difficult to find, is Jim Cathcart’s timeless book Relationship Selling.

Cathcart points out that “Relationship Selling transcends the sales transaction and looks beyond it to the ongoing relationship built between the buyer and the seller.” Unfortunately, many sales people do not get this!

To increase sales you must understand that there are 2 types of relationships: superficial and substantive. Superficial relationships are characterized by small talk about the weather, golf, or other “easy” topics. These relationships are built on casual interactions and lack any real depth.

On the other hand, the substantive relationship is characterized by mutual benefit. Potential customers are not looking for a new “best friend.” They are looking for people who can bring value to their lives. When mutually beneficial, win-win relationships begin to develop you have a substantive relationship.

The way to increase sales is to build substantive relationships!

Cathcart notes that successful salespeople have 2 common characteristics: they love to make sales and they respect their customers. As a result, these salespeople focus on building a substantive relationship with their customers. And, they focus on providing valuable service through that relationship.

Selling should be a caring act. It should be something we do to help people. It should be something we do with people and for people, not to them!

How can we increase sales and help people through our selling process? We can do this in 3 ways:

1.    We can reduce our customer’s fears by understanding them and making them proud of their purchase.

2.    We can enhance our customer’s confidence and image, and in the case of b2b, we can enhance their competitive standing.

3.    We can help achieve the customer’s goals.

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The Power of Persistent Determination

There are times when we’re faced with adversity that it feels like giving up is the easiest option. No matter how bad things seem, remember, don’t ever give up. When you throw in the towel without exhausting every option and possibility, you’re selling yourself short.  Use this one man’s story of determination to give you renewed hope when things get rough.

Jimmy Valvano, the late coach of The North Carolina State Wolfpack basketball team, was asked after his team had just upset the heavily favored University of Houston Cougar basketball team to win the NCAA Basketball Championship in 1983, why his team was able to win, and he replied “Because we believe that you should never give up!” No matter what the odds, no matter what the obstacle, no matter how much others might doubt, you need to believe in yourself, know that you can do it and then be relentless in the pursuit of that objective. Never Give Up! Continue reading

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The Power of Passionate Attitudes and Beliefs

The next power we’re going to discuss is the power of passionate attitudes and beliefs. Ask yourself “what motivates me everyday?”. Do you have goals and aspirations? Do you really have passion for your work? Success in everything you do is tied to your own passionate attitudes and beliefs. There are so many reasons to be passionate about what you do, let’s consider why it’s important.

How many times have you been inspired or motivated to do something simply by listening to someone else? Perhaps it was the tone of voice, the format used, the power of the message, or the credibility exuded by the speaker. Perhaps it was a combination of any or all of these elements that so moved you. Whatever it was, it appealed directly to your emotions. As a result, you were more inclined to do something because of what you felt. If you want others to believe in you, to trust you, to buy from you, it is essential that they relate to youidentify with you, agree with you, feel that you can help them, believe that what you offer provides enough value to justify them taking action and make a commitment. Continue reading

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